Monday, January 14, 2008

THE SOLUTIONS

I have found that the process of letting go of regrets can be done in one step. Instead, it can take a lifetime-- I hope I'll be able to change them in mine. One solution is to write it down--and that's just what I did here. And the same time forget the bad decisions I've made. When I was a teen, I found it hard to decide whether to buy something I really like or not. I would wait a few days to pass and I'd go back to the store if it'still there, then I would says it's really for me and I would buy it. Even though the price have gone up. The way to do it is--decide and after you've made a decision, consider the finality of it so that you'll be more satisfied with the results. Can I finally decide to get a Benz?

Another way of letting go of regrets is to think of the ways in which it might turn out worse than better. And lastly, sometimes it's the things that you don't do that will linger. I've always wanted to be a better dancer--a ballroom dancer at that. So to let go of that regret is to finally take dancing course and see what happens. I might also conquer my inborn shyness and might put it to good use in the near future. Let's say at a wedding. Just kidding.

Now, I feel better knowing I've open up myself to you. Not all my regrets can be solved at one time so I've got to learn to follow up on the ways to undo them that I mentioned above.

3 comments:

Joseph Forest a.k.a. Joselito L. said...

yipeeeeee!!! Diko will dance at John and Gwen's wedding reception!!!! i wonder what it'll be??...the cha-cha-cha? the boogie? the tango? the conga???? and who'll be his partner?....ate nette??? hmmmmmmm......

JUN said...

that's if i find the time to really learn to dance. or i might do the Kagat Labi. lol. but, i don't want the guests to leave earlier.

Maria Bella said...

hahaha! funneh! how about the electric slide :)