Tuesday, March 10, 2009

THE MOLE MAN





I'm sorry I haven't posted any entry in the past weeks. The reason for that is, it has been a very stressful time in my life. Anyway, my life was full of stress, worries and uncertainties ever since I can remember. Growing up I was a pessimist. I was one who can let myself be very happy for the moment for I know there will be sad moments to follow. This was especially true in my childhood into my high school years and part of my college days.

Let me start in Project 8 when our old house was being renovated. The construction guys were taking off the asbestos tiles roofing and one piece fell on my head. Or so I thought. Years past I didn't think about it much and also completely forgotten if I was treated at the hospital or not. More years past, in the early 2000's, that I noticed a wound at the back of my head and it would bleed and ruin my pillow cover. I thought it would heal. But, before it would completely heal and once I happen to scratch my head it would bleed again. So last January, I went to my dermatologist to find out what it really was. The doctor saw me and called the other doctors to take a look. I told him a got the would when an asbestos tile dropped on my head. They were all smiling. They would say: "Isn't pretty?" The doctor said: "You were born with it." "What?" I said. How did that happen? Anyway, the doctor scraped off the top part and sent the piece for biopsies. After seven days, the diagnosis was: Benign Neoplasm of the skin. Boy, was I relieved.

But, I have to go under a operation to close the wound once and for all so it wouldn't turn cancerous if left at that. So, February 24, I went under a short out-patient process where they punched 12 staples on my head after being injected with a numbing solution so I won't feel the pain. It was very inconvenient for me because for 10 days I have to be careful how I sleep and wear hat at work. After 10 days on March 6 I went back again to have the staples removed. And this time they didn't have to numb my head, but, just have the staples taken by the use of a staple remover!!!

I thought that would be more painful, but, the doctor was very good. "Konting aray lang naman! But, only 8 staples were removed because the other 4 staples covering the skin wasn't completely healed. So, it was only this morning that all the remaining staples was taken off. It was "NEVUS, SEBACEOUS" by the way. Sangko would know about it. So, ask him. For me, I'm glad it was finally over. Moral of the story: "When you see something growing, don't let it grow too much. See the doctor at once." Lalo na pag malapit na sa ulo! 

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

KONG HUE FAT CHOI





Last Monday, New Year came for the many Filipino-Chinese and many Chinese everywhere, called the Year Of The Ox. As how traditions go, we collected round fruits, wore red and I had a round earing--no, no, no. That was a pair of cuff links given to me by Fletcher. Me, being in the year of a different animal, I think the Rabbit, am cautious of what the new year has for me. Hula says it would not be a good year for me. That must be true because I am right now sick twice in the past three weeks. Where before I only get sick two, three days the most in a year. But, astrology forecast also says that Pisceses are the darlings of the Gods. Meaning, by saying or praying to the God or gods for better health and better wealth, I would be blessed anyway. And with that I leave the start of the year--remember it's still January-hoping I'll be okay. In fact, I'll be going back to work tomorrow. Have yourself a great and fit new year. Enjoy every bit of the days with your family and friends.

THE FORUM 2





That's Gino in front of J. Jill, in front of the directory and later... inside Nette's Accord--dead tired and I think, snoring. Hehehe!

THE FORUM





Hey, that's your shop, sister. Unfortunately, it was closed, butI can see thru the windows it sells unique teen clothes and accessories and shoes. 

NEW YEAR AT THE FORUM





With the financial crisis worldwide, you think the last place we will be on this day is the Mall. But, with the very warm weather, few customers and lots of sale items, we couldn't escape the temptation of window shopping. The 70% off the goods who would not try to look for these bargains--that's what I did a good shopping for now or future uses. And this place is pretty cool and it's our first time here, but, if the plan pushes through, we'll have one just like this near where the old swap meet area in Mission Avenue and I-76 in Oceanside. 

NEW YEAR'S EVE





In all these years in the States we have this tradition of celebrating this night with close families sharing familiar food fair. That night we had native Pilipino panghimagas. Yun nga lang wala ritong mga paputok--sa PinoyTv marami at marami ring mga naputukan. 




DECEMBER PRESENTS





DECEMBER SHOWS




A house is not a house in December without Christmas lights. Why? Ask me! Do you have any idea?

DECEMBER STILL





You might have guessed, it was really, really COLD. But no snow. Not in Oceanside.

DECEMBER THAT WAS





December started with Nette's classmates ihaw-ihaw party, ala kamayan style also. Only the weather did not cooperate for it rained that day. But, it was fun that lasted thru the night.
We had decorated the house a little like the last time. The difference was Gino's in a fine mood and excited about the San Diego Charges football team getting capturing the AFC West championship and later reached the conference playoff where they were defeated by the Pittsburg Steelers of Mabelle. 

We had Noche Buena at Mommy's place after the 9pm Mass at St. Francis Church. Christmas Day was spent in our house with food and gifts opening. One of the gifts I got was a neck and head electric massager and that was a sign they think I'm getting old or maybe it was just the more colder weather. I'll find in 2009 if indeed I'll be lucky being the Year Of The Ox.

Sunday, November 30, 2008

THIS RING HAS MANY MEANINGS


The following article was posted last November 25 at the Notre Dame yahoogroup by yours truly. I'm posting it here in the hope that you take notice of what Thanksgiving Day really means. We may not know it, but, there's so many things we should be thankful for, although ours lives can be very trying at times. And these persons are some that I'm grateful to have known.

TO MA'AM WITH LOVE (AT PASASALAMAT)

Sa darating na Araw ng Pagpapasalamat (dito sa America), ako ay nagpupugay at nagbibigay pahalaga sa ating mga NAGING mga guro sa high school at sa elementarya. Sila na mga nilalang na walang ginawa kung hindi ang tayo ay maturuan ng "leksiyon" sa ating pagkakatuloy sa Notre Dame. Leksiyon, mga quizzes, mga homeworks at marami pang mga surprise o maikling quiz. Kasama na rin ang pagsulat ng tamang bokabularyo at tamang pagbigkas at tamang pag-martsa! Mga guro na walang ninais na tayo ay mapabuti sa tunay na daigdig. Daigdig ng mga duktor, abugado, aktor, mang-aawit o manganganta, politiko at kawani ng gobyerno, kawani sa pribadong sektor at higit sa lahat sa daigdig ng mga mamamayan na may respeto, kagandahan at may pagpapahalaga sa tamang pamumuhay ayon sa batas ng tao at ayon sa gusto ng ating Diyos Ama, Diyos Anak at Diyos Espiritu Santo--at sa ating Inang Maria.

Lahat, maliban sa iba, ng mga gurong ito ay ninais na tayo ay magtagumpay. At ngayon na karamihan sa atin ay nagtatamasa ng kastas ng pawis na ating napag-alaman noon sa paaralan, hindi ba dapat lamang na pasalamatan si Sir at Madam at si Sister kaya? Nguni't, dadapwa't, subalit, ako ay humihingi ng patawad sa ating mga ginawang hindi kanais-nais dala na siguro ng ating pagiging mga wala pang mga alam.

Gaya nang pagpuna ng paglalakad sa isa sa mga titser, ang pagsagot ng pabalang sa isa at sa marami, sigurado ako, nating pagsuway sa tamang asal. Grabe pa, aking inaamin ngayon, ang pagpapa-iyak sa isa nating guro-madre! Gayun pa man, hindi sila natinag na magturo ng tama, na isipin lamamg ang ating kapakanan at sa huli ay maging mga nakatapos sa mataas na paaralan. Sa mga gurong ito, ang ating tagumpay ay tagumpay ng mga magulang natin at tagumpay na rin nilang mga pangalawang mga magulang-guro. 

Sa darating  na Nobyembre bent-siyete 2008, ako'y nagpapasalamat, ng trenta-sais na beses, sa ating mga guro--kasama na rin si Prof, si Dean, si Coach at mga mabubuting mga kamag-aral. Na lahat ay nagbigayay ng kulay, saya at kabuluhan (at hirap na rin) sa ating buhay. Isama ko na si Daddy at Mommy--Inay at Itay, Papa at Mama o si Father at Sister-- dahil sa kanilang walang sawang suporta at pagtustos sa aking mahabang pag-aaral.

Mabuhay kayong lahat! Mabuhay tayong lahat! Mabuhay ang Pinoy! Salamat sa buhay! Salamat sa Buhay Pinoy! At pasasalamat, kahit papaano, kay Gatpuno Andres Bonifacio na ngayon ay araw ng kanyang kaarawan.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Thought For You

Noon, lahat ng mga babae ay magaganda.
Ngayon, hindi lahat ng magaganda ay babae!

translation: Before, all the women are pretty. Now, NOT all the pretty are women.    

AN AUTUMN REUNION





Yesterday afternoon till the night, Nette's high school classmates had a mini reunion at Yorba Linda, hometown of ex-President Dick Nixon, Orange County. The affair was held of Rollie's townhome's club house which was ours for the whole day. And it was lots of fun because one of their classmates visited all the way from Australia. May mga pasalubong pa pati ako (an Assie baseball cap, boomberang keychain, a koala stuff toy and a mouse pad. (Looks like I was part of the family receiving them. Ang saya kasi he was so generous and I guess he was happy too for seeing their classmates having been away since 1984. And, would you guess he was also once a Notre Dame grade school student, but later, transferred to Binan's Santa Catalina de Sena H.S. And of course, welcome also ang mga asawa at mga anak. Super busog and lasing (akala mo naman malakas nag-beer) ako. Kulang lang ang karaoke, kasi nga excited sila mag-chika muna. Kaya okay lang. I got to talk to two of them (in the picture). They were that friendly. And this coming December, they will hold the party in our house. That was talked about last night and everybody was already looking forward to this.

I get to be closer to guys than my own classmates. That's because this I have known for at least 3 years while the Notre Dame Class of '72 for less than 3 months. I hope this will change in the coming year. But, I have close contact with Sam who I share some common things. He also a heart survivor like my wife. You could say I'm mapili because I like friends who are also good like me. The saying goes, "Boys of the same hair stand (flock) together." And that's my weather report on today's autumn months.

ALZHEIMER'S WALK 2008





This year's walk which Aegis Living (DP) participated in was held at Cal State Fullerton campus in Orange County. It was tiring because we were there at 6:45 am and left after noon na. The band was good and the main event was the fundraising raffle of the Smart Car, which was won by a Pinoy couple. The wife was jumping in joy and couldn't believe her luck, the husband followed her. And who wouldn't be happy to have a car for $50 that has a 65 MPG. Some get lucky, some get unlucky and almost fooled. Cause when I went to our booth, two of Nette's co-workers had just bought 2 tickets when I told them the car was won already. The guy who sold them the ticket, the raffle was to be drawn at 12, but I pointed to him the woman who won it.
So, he hurriedly went to the stage was told I was right. And the officemates got their refunds. Well, I guess the reason the man was able to put the tickets in the raffle drum was he was nakiki-tsika with my wife. Funny, I thought. 

A DAGGER AND A FAN





It's still November that's why the reason for the costumes if you can call them as such. Or you say we're going to a party, but there's none, just in our house and some trick or treaters. We give them  candies instead of asking them for tricks cause they'll just wrap around our trees in the front of the house a lot of toilet paper rolls. Later, it will be Turkey'sgiving Day, but, we still don't know if we're having a turkey of chicken.  

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

JACK O LANTERN



Or you could say Jack O' Nette, Jack O' Jun and Jack O' Gino. From here Oceanween, Happy, Happy Halloween to all of you.

Monday, October 13, 2008

THAT INFERNO IS A NO-NO!





As I approach our house that's the only time that I was convinced that the fire wasn't in our area. By not much--about five miles across the river. But, if you look at these pictures, you would think that it's our backyard already. Everything is still standing around our house. No dark clouds, no smoke dusts, no bad smelling air to spoil the rather cool weather. We're lucky the wind  carried them into the ocean way, just like it did last year during the county-wide 5-fires that lasted for almost one week. There's no way to predict these from occurring, no way we can say we won't be hit. All we can do is pray and be a little prepared. God bless those who help themselves. If you do good things that He says, you will be save and good hands. Are you in good Hands? I hope so. So, don't worry as I do. We get to live another day. Good deed as good deed does, as Forrest Gump would say.

It is now 11 pm, the fire have scorched 1,200 acres and more than 1,000 persons evacuated from the Juliet area inside  Camp Pendleton. Update on the fire will be posted next.

I'M ON THE WAY HOME, HONEY!





It was about 5:15 pm when I heading for home driving past Highway 78 that I saw the thick smoke billowing into the sky. As I drive nearer to the house I could see it become bigger and bigger. I thought, I hope the fire wasn't IN our neighborhood. One mile away from the house, I realized that the fire indeed was far and our house is safe. From the new Ceasar Chavez Middle School and the new public park at the back, I could see the wide extend of the brush fire that was raging inside Camp Pendleton fanned by the high humidity and Santa Ana wind which was predicted to happen in the Inland Area. I guess the meteorologists were wrong again. The fire was just near the coastal boundary and it's cause is officially known yet. But, it would spread through the night and hoping the winds die down. If not, a lot of people we'll have to evacuate and thus have a long night ahead. I hope they're safe.

IS THIS REALLY HAPPENING?






Only last August, Kuya, Ate liz, Nette and I went to hear Mass at this Mission and we were all in awe with the place. It was serene, quiet and quite an amazing place to visit. The background were perfect then, but came today, it was like a surreal feeling of what was really happening. In fact the fire was about 8 miles away up north. And the fire was spreading fast into the night. But the church is safe, thank God, for it sits across the San Luis Rey River. And if you can see, the Mission is still the King. Towering over the fire and undisturbed with the flags showing the westerly wind that prevented the church to be enveloped by the dark, big smoke. Can that be called, "Holy Smoke"? Pardon the pun. It's really a blessing for us that fire is far away from our house. That we can thank God for.

THE FIRE, THE SUN AND THE MOON





Last Thursday at 3 in the afternoon, a wildfire started in the Camp Pendleton training area, as shown near the intersection of Highway 76 and Frazee Road. That's the streets we take in going home. Then, we were not worried because it was contolled as the evening came and contained the next day. That was good I said to myself, but, I was wrong because today at just about 3 pm, another fire started at the same area and this time it was bigger and spread farther into Bonsall and houses were evacuated and relocated into the El Camino High School relocation center. I was driving home when these shots were taken. What's unique about the situation is when I saw the fire in the north, the sun in the west and the moon in the east. How can this be? Is Mother Nature telling us something?

Paradise Will be Lost (Temporarily)






In the twenty-one years we've been living in North County, San Diego, we have seen and felt what it is supposed to be like in paradise, if there's really a place. From the north, there's Oceanside and going south, there's Carlsbad, then Encinitas, Solana Beach, Del Mar and Carmel Valley. Weatherwise, locationwise, there's no shortage of beautiful places to go like in the pictures shown here. These were taken in Cardiff-by-the-Sea, the southern part of Encinitas, that stretches in part of Pacific Coast Highway (PCH) 101.

Taken on a cliff overlooking the ocean, last Septmber,
these houses in the background are worth millions each, while a railroad bridge crosses the lagoon in the foreground. The Chart House, below, is a favorite seafood restaurant, so much so that even when there's a storm and flooding around the building, there are still many guest dining, just to see the ocean waves splashing into the tempered window glass. And if I have dream house, this lovely house is just the perfect one in just the perfect place. (I could already see myself looking into the ocean with the sunset with a pina colada in my hand. If that ever happens, I can consider myself like Adam and my wife, like Eve, before they lost it all. But, sometimes paradise can be lost, even temporarily, as you will see in my next post entry.

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

THE BEST OF TIMES, THE WORST OF TIMES

On September 11, 2008 we remembered the victims of the single most tragic event in American history. Many lives were broken, many pains were suffered by this very unnecessary and evil act perpetuated allegedly by one evil person (Muslim or otherwise). I can't fathom how the families of those who died are coping now. But, in this worst of time come out the heroes--cops, firemen, medics and plain office mates. These brave and hardworking men and women who toiled to right this wrong. Still, it's a very painful feeling when August finally ends and comes September.

In all of these sadness comes joy, at least for me, also to Nette and our friends, Nanie, Agnes and Carrie. And that is when I got the call from Arnel, on September 26, that we would really was going to see him and the Journey perform live in concert. To think that last August, I gave up of ever going to see one of their concerts this year. But, that month was saved by the excitement of my niece's wedding and seeing my family again, also. I'll treasure those happy moments with them.

And when October 1st came and having seen the Journey sing their songs of hope, encouragement and just plain corny feelings expressed in, of all media, rock and rock style, I couldn't ask for anything more. Because the memories--sounds and sights of them, especially, of course, our Idol--still lingers in my thoughts. Tanong nga ni Aggie kung high pa raw ako hanggang ngayon, when we chatted tonight. And I answered without hesitation:"Yes!" But, their US concert tour ended October 5. So that was it, I just have to wait for the Summer of 2009. And indeed I will wait to continue the journey.

But after October 1st came the collapse of Wall Street triggered by the greed and false sense of being of some to what Americans should really be. The excesses of some citizens of this great country--the urge to keep up with the Joneses, as they say. And by their recklessness and foolishness to have it all, to know it all, it ultimately comes to all of us, globally, who will pay and suffer for it. The US government will not be able to solve this problem as one knowledgeable source I talked to said. And to think it started to grow slowly six years ago and nobody was payin attention. All of them wanted some of the goodies of course. Some believe Uncle Sam can fix this mess, but, I believe only the GOD-father and the SON can do the job. All we have to do is pray FAITHFULLY, DON'T STOP BELIEVING IN HIM, BE GOOD TO YOURSELVES AND CHANGE FOR THE BETTER.

And what do we do about those careless Chinese who allowed this "Got (Tainted) Milk! hysteria grow to such monstrosity. Should Uncle Sam do some spanking to his favorite or most favored nation. It's interesting to see how the Eagle battles the Tiger. To wit:"The eagle can fly, but, the tiger cannot eagle." All the tiger can do is crouch! And what does that do? So, does that mean the Eagle will win. Abangan Ang Pagdapo ni Juan "Journior! HOHOHO! I mean: Hehehe! Or maybe Someone's (or Something's) Good Waiting For Me (Us)? And make me feel good again. Winning the lotto wouldn't be bad! I just have to work more on my "The Secret" formulate! LOL. I hope I have lighten up your life.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

JOY AND PAIN IN MY HEART (At The Concert)



After having our tickets checked by the attendant we walked inside the showroom lobby where the concertgoers were happily talking to each other, comparing notes about latest in their idols' happenings and some were looking into many Journey souvenir items like t-shirts, posters, CD albums, canvas bags and even key chains. If you noticed Nette and I wore black attire, sabi nga kasi ni Nette pang-rock ang mga ito. And she was right, there were many wearing black, some of them even with the Revelation CD graphics which I have one having given two of them to two my friends in Manila together with the CDs of which I had bought 10 already. Still waiting for us to enter thru the main door, we saw the group of 20 persons as part of the "Meet And Greet 5 Star/4 Star" ticket holders. These fans paid $350 and 250 each just to see, meet and pose for pictures with the Journey members in a room just besides the hall, before the show started. In fact, a wall to our left only divided Arnel and us and still we cannot give him our thank you card. We felt hopeless about it. Hopeless more so because in front of the door was burly and well-muscled security guard, i think he's Indian, who looks like the very tall villain in the James Bond movie, guarding against any neurotic or hyper-ecstatic or just plain drunk fans who might enter and hurt any of the band members or even Arnel. I said this because there are Steve Perry fans who believe nobody, even if he's better than SP, has the right to be the lead singer. Arnel (AP) have proven he can on the many European and US concerts and tonight he'll sure prove it again. Even if both singers have P (for Power) in their names, A is first to S's voice. Finally, we were ushered to our seats. And we couldn't believe we were to be so near Arnel and yet so far, but, that where we were was more good enough for us.

Now, another waiting starts. We were seated to the right side of the stage at around 7:15 pm for a show to begin at 8 pm. Well we thought that's a short time to wait, a short time to look around as fans continue to enter and take notice of the different and diverse kind of the new Journey band audience. And they range from the very young to the old, male and female gender (but I'm sure I'm right there many of the latter), and the sosyal and jolo crowd. But, everybody were finally getting along, except for some who found their seats a little nearer than what's printed on their tcikets. Kung makakalusot lang! (I know what you're thinking. They were not Pinoys!) Still no Journey but there lots of other rock group music coming out of the speakers as 15 minutes pass 8 pm and the hall wasn't filled and the concert was supposed to be sold-out. (with half of the seats empty?). But about 8:20 people started to fill in and some were whistling for the show to start. The stage and band hands came out making final sound, lights and equipment checks. The mikes, guitars and drums were ready.

The other rock music stopped and on the two big video screens the band members were shown giving high fives and walking from the backstage to the main stage and the audience made a wild roar, loud whistling and hand clapping all at the same time. It even became wilder and louder when the band started playing their first song and when Arnel hit the first note, the audience stood up, so we stood up also, and from then on we didn't seat down for more 5 minutes. So I said to myself, this is American Rock and Roll, not like the last R&R concert of Blood, Sweat and Tears at Araneta Coliseum during the 1970's. Where I would have thought nobody was watching because I was seated in the general admission, the seats almost empty and hardly no loud cheering I can feel my knees click! The band had to tell us to come down and seat nearer to the stage! But, Arnel Pineda had the audience in the palm of his hands and he could do whatever he wants to by the mere sound of his powerful voice. Into the third song the sound was awful--it was either too loud or under mixed that tended to drown out AP's voice. After more and continuous loud cheer from the audience did the sound got better, the sound man might have finally got over the pina colada he had or else not get paid after the concert! Hehehe! The band performed their Dirty Dozen hit songs and new songs and 3 or 4 songs from their other albums with the trademark Journey sound. And Arnel rendered his own version of what Neal Schon was looking for a lead singer, the legacy sound. Not the SP sound! (I'll add the set list when I find them). But I'm sure the we went nuts over songs like; After All These Years (AATY), OA (Open Arms), Faithfully (F), Don't Stop Believing (DSB), Separate Ways (SW), Wheels In The Sky (WITS) and Only The Young (OTY).

Arnel was in his usual self, bouncing around, jumping from the drum riser, doing his trademark microphone pumping action and running to the left side of the stage to the right side just so the audience can see his face which made them cheer even louder. The Pinoys best cheered when he said:"Mabuhay!" and "See You Again, Teme-cula!" at the end of the show. Well, as for the band, they performed and sung just like in their studio sound, only more LIVELIER and fuller. They were all pro together with Arnel. Neal Schon, the lead guitarist and ex-Santana co-founder, played it as if his hands were on fire, and the one most jammed along with Arnel. Just as Arnel has that souring tenor, Neal's guitar was equally soaring and even weeping at one time. Ross Valory, the 59 year old base guitarist, was perfectly on the spot that his duh, duh plucking is felt strongly as if it's the viewers' heart. Ross was funny to watch, he's always making faces with the audience and the second one whom Arnel also jams along. Jonathan Cain, on the keyboard and composer, plays like a classical pianist and a bluegrass harmonica player. Together with Neal and Ross playing their guitars was a sight to see and hear. Deen Castronovo, the drummer, was not to be left out. Because with his energetic and very timely playing and also with his higher than Pineda's already high solo voice, there wouldn't be the present Journey sound than is a lot better musically than the other versions.

We had the time of our lives, with all the non-stop shouting, howling and singing-along with Arnel and the band. We waved our hands, swayed our hips (later on it didn't take long for Nette to be dancing along also). As for me, I was hitting my imaginary drum set just like Deen's and singing-along Arnel (only with a LOWER key)! Hehehe. The other older fans had a blast too when Journey sung 2 two songs which I don't know the titles and they seems like they were the ones singing them together the swaying of the hands and the full open mouths that says: "I know this song." There were poignant moments during the show. One of them was a couple in the front row kissing each other, also a couple to my right in a locked hug, while Arnel sung AATY with all the emotions only he or anybody who have felt what's in the beautiful lyrics and music score. Of course, one couple did the same when "Faithfully" was sung. And that couple was us. I gave Nette a kiss that she was surprise that I would do in public. Well, there's a;ways a first time. Even if it's in a rock concert. And true, this is our FIRST ROCK CONCERT! And as they say also, we will cherish the love--and togetherness and feeling of joy.

The band performed more solos, like that of Deen's 'Mother, Father", two by Neal Schon's and Ross Valory's and one by Jonathan. which I though was usual because in their other venues Arnel carried most of the belting. As the show neared the finally encore, we noticed that he was tired and his voice was flat in some of the songs and also the members particularly Deen who I heard missed a beat but was able to catch up. This maybe because they have 2 back to back shows at the Greek Theater in Los Angeles the nights before this. But, they always give their all and we weren't disappointed at all. And it was more than what they were advertised. It wasn't all You Tube hype. They were real and basically don't need front acts. I only wish the stage was bigger for more room for Arnel to do his thing. I do wish a lot, huh? You'd say "One wish at a time muna." The show ended at almost 10:30. And I believe they performed for two hours. By this time Nette and I were half deaf and whenever I tell her something she couldn't hear me because of the very loud sound coming from those enormous speakers just 10 feet to our left.

What wasn't advertised was that Arnel was sick with fever that night. And still was able to sound as if he was still singing three sets at Hard Rock Cafe Manila, at Bagaberde and the Gapo. It was confirmed for us that he wasn't his normal self during the final bow when he uttered hoarsely so:"Not bad for a sick boy!" Wow! Boy! If I were to get sick and sound and act like him, I'd wouldn't mind it at all. I'd rather be sick for a month than be at work five days a week. Then they bid goodbye, Neal and Jonathan throwing guitar picks at the audience and Deen throwing a couple pair of his drum sticks, too. And we gave them a standing, standing only ovation, clapping our hand that I can feel that my palm hardening that they were almost callous already. And they walked back towards the backstage. But, we wouldn't let them go and continue shouting, cheering and clapping for a good 90 seconds until they came back with an encore of SP's "Touchin, Squeezin' N Lovin' which was the most fun and sad part of the show. Fun, because the fans were really having a great time with Boys. Sad, because of me knowing that Arnel wasn't feeling well and I felt guilty to think what's with him why he didn't even bother to answer my messages and texts. And that it will take another two seasons till we get to see him, that time I hope, personally. All I can say is well done boys. You made me very happy not just for a night but for more days to come.

Note: I sorry I didn't have many pictures of the concert because cameras weren't allowed. But, I did get some videos and sounds for home viewing only. My posts are also subject to addition and/or omission as memory becomes clearer as time goes by. So check it back if you like. Thank you.

THE CONCERT OF THE YEAR






Last Saturday, September 26, we picked-up our tickets at Pechanga Resort and Casino glad that finally we have the proofs that we indeed was going to see Journey and Arnel Pineda. Because after having bought Lawn tickets (the fartest from the stage) for $135 last August 1 for their Harrah's Rincon Casino concert on October 3, only to be told the next day that the tickets were reserved and that I'll not be charge in my credit card anyway. I was really disappointed that there was really no chance for me watch them this year and that's bad. And who would know the bad who turn out for the better. I guess if you really wanted something very much, you just have to think hard that you have and you're there already. That they say is the "Secret" in life-the power of positive thinking. Lucky for me and Nette, it worked out. The only missing part to complete this event is that the promoter canceled the VIP Pass meeting. But this didn't dampened our excitement to see the J-Boys.

That was evident, at least for me, when the day before the concert I was choosing what to wear and doing the checklist what to bring like: earplugs, binoculars, Journey's Revelation CD and T-shirt with black and silver ink Sharpie matker pens and Zoo's Gimik CD for autograph signing, digital camera with 3 batteries and a new memory card. And the Thank You card we were hoping we could give to Arnel personally. I wasn't a Boy Scout in grade school but I was a PMT cadet for four years! So, after that I've always like to have things prepared and covered, so to speak. So, on the day of the concert, October 1, 2008 we left home early to be at the casino before everybody else to avoid the traffic like what happened on their other concerts. We arrived at the casino well ahead of time that we still have time to eat a light snack and some slot machine playing and then at around 7 pm we walked in front of the showroom entrance area where we saw some die-hard fans are assembling already and excitedly telling stories about the concerts they've been to and how they met Arnel also. Nette was even given a reproduction pen/ink and crayon poster of Arnel singing created by one artist-fan of his. And that in part made up for that meeting with Arnel that would not take place.

Thursday, October 2, 2008

TICKETS FOR A JOURNEY


Actually, I got the good news last Friday, September 26, 4:15 pm, when he himself called me in my cell phone. He asked in a soft and husky voice and simple as he does, I'm told: "Is this Jun? And I answered: "Yes." I couldn't make our conversation longer and make some tsika because I was in the middle of doing my duties at work. And my office mates were looking at me as if they were saying:"Nasa phone na naman si Pablo!" Well, I didn't mind them and kept the call going and they couldn't do anything about it. I've waited for this call for more than a month. And if they think I'll cut it short and tell me to go back to work, they can wait for Christmas!

He said:"This is Arnel. (Note: He didn't even say his last name. He's that humble and friendly.) Somebody from Pechanga will contact you about the tickets. These are two tickets." For a while I didn't know what to say and trying not to let him (or my co-workers) hear how excited I really was just to hear his voice. And the only question I could think of asking was: "When will they call? The whole day?" He said: "Just wait for the call." I said:"Okay. Thank you very much." I went back to work not knowing how to concentrate on doing it and thinking the call may not come that day for it was almost 5 pm and the Box Office will be closed. And that means I have to wait the next day-or even the whole day and I have work the next day, Saturday, when it tends to be busier that the weekdays. I said to myself:"Patay, baka di ko marinig ang ring!" I just thought: I waited this long, so what is a day. At least I know my good friend has made good on her promise for us to see Arnel and Journey in Concert LIVE.

Well, I went back to work when not three minutes passed when my phone rung and it was the gracious and polite Special Events Coordinator on the other end. And she said: "Jun, there are tickets here for you arranged by your friend with the Journey." And I answered: "Yes, yes, he's Arnel Pineda. How much are the tickets?" She replied: "$100 at the Gold-Right . The best I can do for you." I said to myself: "That's perfectly alright with me because I learned that tickets were sold-out in 18 minutes way back something like three months ago." Can I pick it up tomorrow?" (Cause I want to make sure that I would indeed have the tickets, in my hands and believe this is happening for real, to this much highly anticipated and recommended concert of the year.) She said: "Sure, any day or before the show starts." And after I dictated my plastic card information (as I knew before then they will not be free), she said I'm all set. (All set for a journey I thought would never take off.)

That Friday night I decided to keep it a secret from Nette and just surprise her the next day. Upon learning from her that she's got nowhere to go that next Saturday, I told her we would go to Pechanga, after getting home from work, and check out the place IF ever we get the tickets. And she said okay let's go, play slots a little and get something to eat at one of their restaurants. Mommy came with us cause we haven't gone out with her in a long time. I was leading them to the Box Office, pretending to look around, checking the showroom's line-up till I couldn't contain my excitement and went to one of the teller and showed her the confirmation number that was given to me. She went to the back of the office, check the computer and asked the number again, typed it in the computer, pulled opened another drawer and voila, she came back with an envelope and asked for my ID. All Nette and Mommy was looking at the whole scene with amazement that indeed we went there just to really pick-up the tickets. Nette said: "Ikaw talaga, Galing mong magtago ng secret!"

At last we have the tickets and we decided to call Arnel to thank him from the bottom of our hearts, but, it was only the voicemail that came on and we left messages right there and there. But because of the casino gamblers and slots noises, I wasn't able to answer his 5:09 call. It was only while eating at the Flaming Noodles that heard from my cell that he left a message telling me to text him my real name together with Nette's for he's arranging a VIP Pass for us. And that call is now locked-in my Message log forever. It doesn't get any better than this. We'll get to see him sing and get real close in meeting him at the same time. We went home very excited and eagerly chatted with our friends in Hongkong and Manila to tell them about the good news.

And for the next five days nothing can deplete my happy feeling, not even the bad news on Wall Street, the hot and cold weather and the feeling of helplessness of some of the people I've talked to. Those things can wait, a have a concert to watch and prepare. Solving the world's problem I am not prepared and equipped, but, I can give you the three titles of the Journey's songs: "Be Good To Yourself," Change For The Better and "Don't Stop Believing" and I believe every good things will follow from those lyrics.

Sunday, September 28, 2008

DON'T STOP BELIEVING


My trip in following the Journey (most of them YouTube viewing!) this year is coming hopefully to a happy ending. But, there are only a few concerts remaining. And if I don't get to see Arnel LIVE, it's fine with me. After all there is next year. Meeting a good friend in Manila last month, I might be in for a pleasant surprise. And since I found out about the group's songs last March, I didn't stop believing that somehow, somewhere, sometime that I, and also Nette, would be very happy to see them even for just few hours. Sabi nga:"Tutukan ninyo ang susunod na poste!"

Saturday, September 20, 2008

HIGH SCHOOL MATES





I always wonder what happened to my good old High School classmates. For reasons I can't recall now, after graduation I did not have contact with any of them. That might something to do with what happened to Gerome, whose face I still remember vividly to this day, who was stabbed and died ONE week before he was to graduate with us. Gerome, who's a wholesome and fine lad, who I was sure was going to have a great future. Gerome who was buying bond paper at his neighborhood store for his last term paper when he was accosted by one of those who have no reason to live in this world. One of those who wasted his life doing nothing good and by his terrible action, we, as his classmates, lost a valued friend. I was particularly close to Jerome together with Eugene Mercado where we hang out at his Morning Breeze Street house.

That's why our graduation was very solemn and subdued and very emotional, especially when his mother received Gerome's diploma from Father McGrath. That's why our graduation party was lacking in fun, at least for me. Maybe that's why after that time and the following years in college, I wasn't able to go back, even just once, to the campus where I've spent many happy moments and experiences, that in great part, shaped of who I am today. His passing away was very painful for me and I'm sure for many of my classmates which was touched by Jerome's smile, and by simpleness and humble demeanor. And I'm sorry to Eugene that I didn't get to continue our friendship. And to Dennis, another of my best friends in high school, whom I lost contact also, when a year or two after graduation had moved to Los Angeles. In all these years I have thought and wish I could see them again.

Now the good news. Last week Lynn mentioned to me that their High School classmates have a yahoogroup and did have a mini reunion last September 8, being Notre Dame of Manila's foundation day. And that my batch '72 class has a North America alumni association (NDMAANA). And Lynn told me how happy their meeting was for he himself haven't seen his classmates for 35 years! He advised to visit NDMAANA website to reconnect with classmates. I did so after a day or two, being skeptical that I wouldn't find anybody or any name that I can still remember in the officers and board of members lists. I sent an email and what a surprised when the President replied and mentioned that he was also from batch '72! He even remembers my Jay Ilagan hair style and that they used to call me, "Siopao", which I didn't like then, but now is a bit okay. It's a lot better than being called, "sunog" by the others who didn't like me. But that is okay also, because I didn't like them also or doesn't meet my standard for them to be called my friends. I guess even then I was choosy and the reason also I didn't have a single girl friend. The only guys that were courting me were those guys in sutanas. I didn't have a single clue that would change in college. I guess that would be natural if one spends his days with boys only for ten years. Some say high school days are the happiest. For me, college days are the greatest, for during those years I found true friends for life and most importantly my TRUE LOVE for life--my wife of 25 years.

Now, even my nights are better, as the song goes, or even busier, livelier and entertaining as I am always at my Apple, combing my Inbox and replying to the many emails I continue to get from my fans, I mean, from my long lost classmates. Who I'm finding out are our closer here than I thought. I'm not alone after all. They're just out there and might even be one of those Pinoys we saw at the Mall today. It very exciting to find out if indeed they are.

Now, as I've said here before: I'm trying to get back to life- to my real life, to get back and deal with my past and finally connect and contact some of those I haven't done so before. As they also say in Pilipino:"Hindi ka makakarating sa iyong paroroonan kung di mo alam ang iyong pinanggalinan". At ang daan para ko magawa ito ay ang Internet Highway. And thanks to Al Gore, he, who said was the one who invented it. (The truth is probably in his lock box!!!). It will give a big chance to meet again people who I have shared memorable and unforgettable moments together. For that I would be very grateful.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

THAT WAS REFRESHING


Lately Nette and I have walking Paris, our long-haired mixed Chihuahua, around our neighborhood. She does it in the morning after an early workout at the gym, but, before she goes to work. I am supposed to walk Paris in the afternoon upon arriving home from work. Well, I just did that and what a happy gal she was. At first, she was the one pulling the leash and me and in doing so she was panting heavily. But in a book I read before, I should be the one to be in control of her, so I tighten or shorten up the leash so that she was walking besides me not ahead of me. So, after we passed the swimming pool, she was getting used to the idea of walking besides and was even jumping at my legs gently. And that's how we went home, but on our way home I was thinking of the times Mabelle and family was here using the pool last July. And I said I'll have a dip at he pool on a nice Thursday afternoon.

And why not, I was tired after a long day at work and it was still sunny and it was only 6:15. So, I changed into my blue swimming trunk with my cellphone, keys and earplugs. When I got into the pool's gate, I look inside and there was nobody else using it. My lucky day, I said to myself, and I can do whatever I want to do if I want to, if not for a surveillance cameras on top of the roof. Well, I was going to do anything foolish, though. I got first into the round jacussi and the jets and bubbles was very soothing to my muscles and the warm water made for a relaxing massage. And I don't have to pay anybody to have one like I did at Tarawoods and at the Circle C THai Massage Clinic. Next, i got into the swimming pool which a little cold, but was bearable. I did short laps of backstroking and freestyle while imitating Michael Phelps. Wow, huh! Or si Dyesebel na lang.

In our almost five years in this community, I can count in my hands the number of times we have used the pool and mostly when we have visitors. Now, today, it was like it was about time we start getting our money's worth we pay in our HOA fee.
And I plan to do it more often next Monday Fall officially starts, but, till now it's been very humid lately in the afternoons like it's still summer. Well, indeed, this year our summer was cooler and a bit late. So, if you're in the neighborhood, join me and we might as well bring something to munch and drink while watching a red-orange perfectly round Oceanside sunset. Just what I was looking while showering at the pool's facility. Next time, I'll bring my camera and my I-pod. That would an ideal way as Californians do it.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

DO YOU BELIEVE IN UFO'S?



Tonight I happen to watch ABC show, "Primetime UFO" To See is Believing. At Stephentown, Texas, several people narrated how they saw lights that they believe are UFOs. And the radar shows that indeed there was something out there. What do you make out of these? Hope you comment on this.

AND THEN THE BLOGGER RESTED



After almost a week of massive, as Gail would best describe, update of this blog, the blogger rested on Sunday night-just in time to watch "Eat Bulaga" or have a massage there!!!! In going back and choosing the copies and photos to post, I came to realize what a long and satisfying feeling that I had in the last two months. For one, I get to know Mabelle, Billy and Julius more. And what a fine son Julius is becoming and what fine family they are. I can only see a better and happy future for them. Or I can see a daughter down the line! Joke only. Second, I get closer to Da Kuya thru after daily small talks. And why is this? Maybe it's because we have grown up, mature and finally ready to hang our gloves ( for that matter, our egos). So much as Da Kuy is asking me already how and where we would retire, which is not too far away. I hope I won't be too far away from my him, Lynn and Mabelle. We'll need each others support.

The trip gave me a chance to be with Daddy again for which I've been thinking of doing for a long time. That's why till now it makes me tear up when I see him, in my mind, playing catch with the beach ball in Tarawoods. His smile reminds of our happy days here. His happiness is simple--to be with his family. But now he is alone with Mommy. But, Daddy, it wouldn't be long we'll see you again. I'll prove you wrong. The trip also gave me some time to share with Mommy. Especially when It came to karaokeing. She still has the voice. Although, she can't seem to forget that I forgot some items I promise to bring for her. Some time to treasure although Mommy can sometimes be to domineering. She has to be in control even if we have our own lives now. She just have to realize that it's alright to give way to other thinking.

Lastly, our last trip, I was able to know more Gwen and John, Gail and Alej. But, I know it's not enough to fully appreciate them. But, I truly thank for all their help. The only persons I didn't get to know more are Lynn and Jon--and why not, I'm always chatting with Lynn almost every week. And Jon, I know even his whole life story by reading his blog. I only wish I could have spent time with my other relatives and find out what happened to some of my friends and loves.

Those were the best of times, those were times I wish would never end and those were the times I'll never forget. And later, after all these years I wish we could stay in touch (friends and family). For we had good times and nothing will erase those in my memory.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

KEEPING UP WITH THE JOURNEY







Last November 2007, I saw a GMA PinoyTV segment of SOP (Sobrang Okay Party) where the host was interviewing a Filipino rock singer who was invited to audition for the 70's icon melodic Rock group called Journey who became popular back in the Philippines with the song, Open Arms, which I mistook as being sung by Air Supply. In the next Saturday's show the Pinoy singer got his wish and dream of being named as the lead singer of the American band and his name is Arnel Pineda.

Then, last March, I give credit to my good brother-in-law, Fletcher for emailing me a You Tube clip of Arnel's first concert with Journey in Chile. I became an instant fan and also a You Tuber and followed his own progress and wasn't disappointed that he's still getting better and better. And at the same time, stay the humble guy that one of our best friends and classmates know way back Arnel's Shakey's Pizza nights. I have since supported him by buying multiple quantities of their lastest CD/DVD album called Revelation, together with the Tour t-shirts which I gave away as gifts to my relatives and friends. And boy were my friends were estatic to receive them. So, naturally, what would follow was my wish that I see them live in concert as I keep tub of where they are with their European and US tours.

And my following stopped when we went to on a trip back to the Pinas. What I didn't know was it wasn't to stop there for into our second week there, we got to see Agnes and Carrie again. And with them this time was Nanie, also one of our longtime friend and a livelong Pinoy rock and roll fan from Kamuning. And who also comes from that place, you guess it, no other than Arnel Pineda. I was really happy to see them again just as such, but, what enliven our meeting, which lasted till 3 am and another night the next day, more was the stories about her knowing Arnel well. She also was telling us if Goya, another friend of us, can provide good security, Nanie can get Arnel to do a surprise appearance at Goya's new bar and that would surely get more customers to patronize it. Journey will surely have an Asian, including the Philippines, tour, so, I might, go back earlier than I intend to do. Wow,huh?

Now, I'm just happy to listen to his voice at you Tube, at my I-pod Nano and last Friday I discovered this palm-size Journey MP3 player. It was amazing for being a player with video lyrics, a voice recorder, an external speaker and earphone with surprisingly good quality sound. A ZVUE brand. it comes with a pre-loaded Journey's new Revelation 22 songs. Wow! There's northing else to do but charge that thing and listen, just as I do now as I post this.

Note:: After sleeping at 4 am this morning searching the You Tube and if you amazed at Arnel's voice, I found out these videos posted by EMKE and Puppyjlo and you will really be wow by these guys as you will also be proud and happy for Charice when she'll be guesting at Celine Dion's Madison Square Gardens in NY.

ALL GOOD TRIPS MUST END







Sadly, their U.S. trip must end. It was short and it was long in ways I could think now--was there places we we're not able to show, was there things we were not able to do. You bet we had lots. But what was important that we get to spend precious time with my good brother and his equally charming wife. Time that would be in our minds to reminiscence with longing and happy thoughts only. As they head back to their real life and us to ours, we wish them the best of health, away from physical and mental harm. Take care always and we will also for there will be other times like these that we are going to be looking forward to. I didn't have to wave long to them goodbye cause deep in my heart I still wish they wouldn't have to go. And they didn't have to look long to see us leave. And that was their journey. A journey that will continue. And another journey for me as I follow THE Journey again to pass the time here till I don't know where I'll end up. Please keep up with me as I do so.

BRUNCH AT MIMI'S







The morning before Da Kuy and Te Liz left for Brasil, we treated them to a brunch at Mimi's after the Sunday Mass. Needlessly to say, all of us enjoyed the food ala New Orleans style and Bourbon resto amniance. There's also a viewpoint with power binocular at the Batiquitos Lagoon off Highway 78 and Ineterstate 5. And what would be a trip to America without a visit to Walmart Store, the world largest retail store.






From the SS Midway aircraft carrier and the Bob Hope Memorial Park, we went home and the next day heard mas at the San Luis Rey Mission church, the largest and antiquated of all the mission chain from Southern to Northern California.

CABRILLO NATIONAL PARK







We then trekked, in my MPV that is, to the Cabrillo National Park, situated 2,000 feet above level and nestled at the mouth of San Diego Bay, we certainly had a feel what Spanish voyajer, Juan Cabrillo did then. It offers a wide view of the downtown San Diego, the Coronado Island on the left and the vast expanse of the Pacific Ocean on the right depending on where one stands near the Old Lighthouse that was not shown here because the park closed at 5 pm when we got there.

A SAN DIEGO LIFE









A DAY IN PARIS







Next on our stop was a trip to the world famous Eiffel Tower with Kuya and me toying around with the balloon.

SIGHTING ROMAN'S VIEWS





A MANHATTAN STREET SCENE





3 DAYS AROUND THE WORLD IN AMERICA






Back from the Philippines, we headed on a 3 day trip of the Reviera,with a little side gambling. Then walking through the streets of New York, visited Caesar at the Forum.

RIDING AROUND THE CITY







Shown is the The Fort skyline, The EDSA Shrine where the 1986 People Power event took place and the Trinoma Mall near SM Mall near Project 8. These malls are really BIG and the prices SO low and the people so many. And we're not even to take picture of the Mall of Asia or MOA, the largest of each kind in Asia including it's own separate church building.




EXPERIENCING MANILA'S SIGHTS AND SOUNDS





MEETING OLD BUT SPECIAL FRIENDS







Nothing is more satisfying than to see and meet good friends when we got back home. It's been almost more than 15 years since we last saw them. They are Agnes, Carrie and Nanie. They have their own lives now, their own families, their own successes and failures and happiness. But, there's the joy of meeting again the old familiar faces, familiar smiles and familiar voices. The stories we shared- the pain and heartache, the simple joy of going together to Baguio or the Mall or the movies. It was so much fun and also so much sadness when it was time for us to depart. But, soon we'll be back and next time we'll be going places. Just wait for that time.




MY CITY, MY HOME







Project 8 is where I call home since we moved there in 1958. Originally a government housing project that was the last one to be built (from Project 2 to Project 7 in Quezon City), it has evolved into a different place. I remember the parish church where we hear Mass and where some of our family's baptisms and weddings were held. I still remember the uncovered basketball court, in front of the church, where tournaments were help and moving film showing by a traveling projection van sponsored by a commercial product company. In another corner I remember the store we used to have on my mother's friend's lot who has now since to the States also. I would keep watch for days and on the weekend go on dates with my girlfriends after earning a few pesos and free meals, to booth. I remember a round skating rink which given way to a tennis court and a grandstand. And I can still see the biggest and tallest house once owned by a good friend and kababa, Bubot. In it's place is a even bigger and beautiful mansion.

The streets may have become narrower and the whole community crowded by US standards, but, it's the only place I call my neighborhood, where i grew up and shaped to what I am today. And it's a decent place to grow up, nothing fake, nothing fancy, just clean and hardworking middle class they now call barangay.

MY MOTHER'S PRIDE







My mother's flower field is also one of my favorite photo locations with the wide variety of colors that makes wonderful feelings to sight and smell. With the wooden hut at the center of it all, it's ideal place for reading the newspaper or magazine or having a snack or even a meal. We're fortunate we can still have this in the midst of the crowded and busy city.

MY MOTHER'S GARDEN







When I'm in the Philippines, the only place I'm at peace is at my mother's garden especially early in the morning. She has a way of giving and making her plants and always green. It's really a hard doing that because that's what try to do and found when it comes to my own garden. In her case she may somebody to help her maintain it, but, me it's almost always me. That's fine with me cause after that I feel a sense of having achieved much and serenity after a day's work.































Thursday, September 11, 2008

A BATANGAS PARADISE







After months of hectic and joyful anticipation and participation at Gwen and John's wedding, it was time for all of us for a much need R&R (rest and relaxation). And where did we find it? In the countryside, of course. In a little barrio in Tanauan, Batangas, one hour and half drive by car from Metro Manila. A private and by appointment only resort, the place was tip to us by my brother, Lynn and boy was he right and told us we should go there to see how beautiful the place was. And so we said:"Tara na!" at Tarawoods. A working farm of papaya, coffee and other crops, Tarawoods is really a charm and a relaxing escape from our worries. And we would there for three worry-free days of eating, swimming, singing, walking and more eating again.





We would like to thank also Nette's high school friends Maricar, Rico, Lou, Peen and her doctor-husband, John's family and Alej and her Mom for sharing with us this memorable day for Gino and Gail and for us, too.

TWO COUSINS' BIRTHDAY PARTY






August 6 Gail and Gino get to celebrate their birthdays with a big lechon, delicious local dishes, Filipino desserts like sapi-sapin, pulutan tinulak pa ng world famous San Miguel beer. Guests included friends and relatives and Kuya's new balae, Mr. Delano Santos with some of their relatives from San Francisco.

OUR PHILIPPINE JOURNEY


















We left California by LAX and after taking a stop over in Guam, we arrived in Manila at 5:45 a.m. After a short ride to Project 8, we had a late breakfast with my parents, brothers-Kuya Soc and Lynn with Jon, nieces Gwen and Gail. We also visited Lynn and Jon's meatshop in Pasig with trying out to be a butcher-if ever I lose my job-with Nette admiring their tea set collection. And it was to more photo op showing everybody in a happy mood at seeing each other again.

Gino's 25TH BIRTHDAY






On July 31, Gino celebrated his birthday by trying out the barong he's going to were at Gwen's wedding. And also later that night with a simple party with friend Edith and son, Dale and Papa and Mommy. He even gets to blow his cake's candle and partake of some food. We kept it that way because he will have a bigger joint birthday party with Gail on August 6. The card was given by his officemates at Ralph's. He got me again by taking a picture of me deep into the Land of ZZZZZ!

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

A song in my mind


What is life without love?
What is love without life?
Well, it's me with all the time
We hardly had the time to share.

Now I don't have you
And you don't have me
We just didn't make time
Until it was too late.


Sorry guys if I posted this after the last one, I couldn't help myself singing it in my mind. And share it with somebody. I hope you don't mind a song in my mind. Have a beautiful morning. Love you all.

A MONTH OF HAPPINESS







THIS JUST IN! THIS JUST IN!

Oceanside, California, U.S.A.: Tomorrow marks the first month wedding anniversary of Gwen and John Santos. It was exactly on the 11th that they did so in the presence of those who love them at the Sanctuario de San Antonio, Makati City, Philippines. Amid the resumption of our lives, we take time to remember this lucky couple to have found each other,. And to have found new family members that years from now will continue to support and guide them. For them to remember their first dance as husband and wife and I hope they will still remember the feeling after all these years to come (say, 25 years) just as Tito Jun and Tita Nette did last April 23.

This hope will come true what with a wedding invitation that looks like a passport that only means that your partnership will take flight, take them places, take them times where love and happiness abound. It may even take you here in the near future and we, Gino, especially, will gladly be waiting. With a passport of love and ticket of trust and understanding, I don't see why your marriage won't be a success. After all you only have to look near you for other examples like Mama and Papa, Ina and Itay and Lola and Lolo. And as godparents we are here to help and continue to give advise because we have what it take to reach where we are now. And that is NOT yabang only. Okay konti lang!

Again, Happy 1st Month Wedding Anniversary, Happy 6th Month Anniversary and 1st Year Anniversary. Kasi naman I have three kinds of wines for you (in the picture). Cheers! We'll let you open the bottle and pour them in one empty glass just for the two of you. Celebrate this first accomplishment of your new life together. Mabuhay ang Bagong Kasal! And wishing you a long and fruitful journey into sharing and giving. And let HIm into your time for light. And finally, I wish you the best (of times and health).

Note: Please zoom in (by double clicking the second picture from the top) on the beautiful wedding dedication written lovingly by Tito Moses Go, Jr., a budding poet and a friend. Thank you.

KUYA MEETS SAN DIEGO, PART 1








After talking about it for about 12 months and since 1991 when Da Kuy visited us, he finally came last July. He was excited to see us and of course what San Diego has to offer. And offer was what we did. First, was a late lunch with me at West Buffet. We had fun and talked about what had happened in our lives. The menu was OK, but I told him we'll try the Chinese dishes only. For the next day we treated him to dinner of our favorite Japanese resto at Hana's in Oceanside where customers are welcome with a strike of a big gong .Kuya was able to taste "The Boat", a selection of best Niponggo fare. He sure did enjoy eating here, after having nothing to eat after he left Brasil, and we went home still talking about things we've missed out. We had BBQ at Our Grill
at home which he has been hearing and seeing in this blog. The next day, he left for R.P., but not after we had another lunch at Panda Express at the Carlsbad Outlet and a day's tour of the brand name stores like Polo Ralph Lauren, Lascoste, Coach, DKNY, Gap, Banana Republic, etc. Of all things to buy, Da Kuy bought for himself a money bag at Samsonite that showed his practicality and wisdom that I have came him to know.

It wasn't for long that he will be back for a longer period come August and we indeed waited for him with excitement, again.

Monday, September 8, 2008





GWEN AND JOHN'S WEDDING

The wedding was last month and the following item would have appeared in the newspaper if Daddy sent a news release:

Manila, Philippines: John Santos and Gwen Astrid was married on August 11, 2008, though they originally wanted a 8-08-2008 date, but, found out the church was booked that date, at the Sanctuario de San Antonio church, Forbes Park. Makati City. Still luck was on their side because John came with his loving parents, Mr. Delanao Santos and Mrs. Fe Santos. And Gwen's father, Mr. Socrates Limcumpao, gave her away, with her mother, Elizabeth Limcumpao , beaming with pride. Mr. Limcumpao almost shed tears only to remember that if he did he would pay his brothers $10 for every tear shed. The moving ceremony lasted almost an hour and every family, friends and relatives were happy to witness such a solemn and impressive nuptial. The priest pronounced John and Gwen as husband and wife with those in attendance giving them blessing for a blissful married life.

The principal sponsors who's who in Luzon and California societies including Capt. Noel Porcuna, Aileen Bugarin, Pablo Limcumpao, Jr., Noami Nicado, Romeo Villanueva ,Annabella Oliveros, John Go, Susan Oronce, Renato Garcia, Honorata Garcia, Jesus Santos, Luz Santos, Ramon Visperas, Ofelia Visperas, Roseller Siat and Racquel Siat. Bestman was Edward Reyes and the the Maid of Honor was the bride's sister, Gail Monique Limcumpao.

Reception followed at the 1 Espalanade Ballroom near the Mall of Asia. Video montage and photo slide show was shown. A sumptuous dinner was served and everybody had fun with True Faith providing the music. John's father made a speech and mentioned that he expect john and Gwen to give him a grandson ASAP. Next, Gwen's father also made a speech, but, was shortened for the benefit of those who really listened as the others had left already. Of course, Gwen's Lola Lydia would have the final say and welcome John as the newest member of the family. All in all, it was a day for all to remember and wish the newlywed happiness, success and health in their new life together.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

THE WEDDING OF THE YEAR































Due to public--actually Mabelle's--demand I'm posting some of the photos of Gwen and John's wedding without further explanation, annotations or connotations whatever that means. I was one of the Godfathers so I wasn't freely able to take pictures at the church and the reception. But, I'll add more lengthy observations of the wedding and the other events leading to it and afterwards. Enjoy.

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

MY SISTER'S CALIFORNIA BREAK





















Our summer officially started when my sister, who we haven't seen in ten years, and her hubby, billy and son, Julius arrived from PA. So, you could see our excitement and theirs, too, especially Julius who already felt at ease with us when Gino and I met them at the airport on June 28 afternoon. The following days started with late night talks of catching up with have happened to us both thru the years. The next day was a swim in the Carlsbad state beach, a lunch at In N Out, strawberry picking at the field near the outlet and dinner at home and more talk.

Next, they did the California Pass of four amusement parks, with Mabelle driving my van on the following weekdays. Parks like Disneyland, California Adventure, Universal Studios, San Diego Zoo and Sea World on the 4th of July. They were back shortly for a swim at our common pool and another outside dinner at Hawaiian Ohana resto and a meal at El Toritos. I'm sure they had a great time as sure as we did in hosting them. They deserved the break cause after this they will again be busy with their lives.

July 4th, we had a small bbq and chat time at our patio while watching a televised Macy's Fireworks Display in NY. Another sightseeing followed the next day to the harbor and the pier. They left on July 6th and it was another sad day for us and the same for Julius who said he'd like to stay behind. Hehehe. The cutie really love his stay with us. But, that departure was replaced with joy again with Kuya's arrival from Brasil. Abangan ang susunod na post ko or mga post na darating.

Monday, September 1, 2008

THE SUMMER CONCERTS, PART 3







In the U.S. this year, summer started to caught fire musically with the re-emergence of Journey with their new Filipino lead singer named Arnel Pineda, formerly of the Amo and Zoo band. And how wow the European and American fans with his "soaring rock tenor" with many sold-out concerts. And to think he was performing in Hongkong and R.P. for 25 years and still relatively unknown with the masses!!! Last January I saw an interview with Arnel, on Pinoy TV, saying he auditioned and got the gig with Journey and nobody didn't take notice. Now, the whole world knows and hear and will continue to hear, i hope, for years to come. He is that good. Take his friend from way back before college days, Nanie, who I happened to know then as a good classmate and later as good friend with Nette and our group in Shakey's Manila days.

Needless to say, I have come to follow Arnel's ascent to rock stardom like the other singers I've liked. But, the new Journey band is something else. They're a very likeable and clean guys, musically and personality-wise. Thanks, in a way, to Arnel's very humble and level-headed demeanor that the older members give praise and credit to Arnel for making be better.
And boy I spend late nights and mornings searching for the latest video posts of his concerts at Chile to his latest U.S. city tours. With which Nette have gotten jealous that I spend more hours in the evening than her. LOL. She just doesn't know or not interested on how much Arnel's gone thru and accomplished in just a short time. Besides, most times I don't like the Marimars, Dysebels and Bakekangs TV shows anymore which seems to have the same plots and actors. They're better shows, but, as my attention span diminishes as I grow older, I just tired of them. For me, now, You Tube is the place to watch which before was I thought was just for people who have nothing to do but watch somebody else's forbidden life on video.

I have been "You Tubing" eversince and was just cut for a while when we went back for a vacation in R.P. last month. The happiness that I felt attending the first wedding of my immediate family there and seeing them again was no match to the joy of learning that Nanie knows my idol. Family is family and should come first as I have come to know from my extended family here. But, my musical family is also of who I am and what makes me happy, too. With this belief comes from what Mommy said years ago: "He who doesn't know how to sing doesn't have a soul". So what are you waiting for, Grab a mike! I'll be posting more of our vacations later. Thanks for your patience.

MY SUMMER CONCERTS, PART 2



When I moved to the States with my family in 1987, I left behind many fond and happy memories of my adolescence and adulthood accompanied by songs and music I have come to love. And it was two summers later on that I felt sad and longing and felt happy and lived thru my life away from loved ones from the Philippines by listening to the music of the Lettermen, the Tiongco Brothers of R.P.!. Music of Barry Manilow then by the all-time favorites of Basil Valdez, Jose Mari Chan and the minus one of the Manila Sound which includes Cinderella, Hotdog, Circus Band, Hajji Alejandro, Janet Basco and others.

Later, when Gino would hear the music of Jose Mari Chan, he would ask me if that was my voice singing in the CD player. And I would tell him yes. Konting yabang, ano? He really knows when he hears a good voice, I guess. For in the early 90's we were able to get our LD (Laser Disc) multiplex karaoke player. And boy did we used on late in the morning on ends. So much so that every party we had then had a karaoke session and years later till now it graduated into the MagicSing karaoke. Dito nahasa ang pagkanta ko nang husto (whether they like it or not). Yabang again.

I kept on singing and believing. It's not that I believe I was good enough, but, for me, singing has become an outlet of showing my feelings (love, sadness, longing and dreaming) thru the lyrics of the songs. And now this summer comes my rediscovery of the music of Journey Band, Arnel Pineda, Zoo, Sabado Boys and Freestyle.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

MY SUMMER CONCERTS

It's summertime here. Time to relax on the patio chair listening to my CD player. Savoring the light breeze and chirping of birds and looking up the near perfect blue skies. And spending lazy afternoon hours with Nette and starting a barbecue later in the night. What else can make my summers here enjoyable and memorable? And that would be going to one or two city concerts they hold here for free. They call it concerts at the park offered for the families in the neighborhood. The last one we attended was a jazz concerts by a local band. I have always remembered my summers with songs. Songs that have accompanied the joy and heartaches of my life.

I remember my summer when I was a little boy my mother would bribe with chocolate or money if I dance the tune "Five Foot Two". I would even attempted to sing, though not often for I was a very shy. But, I've always admire and love Mommy when she sings. Then when I was in grade school, our community would hold a party showcasing the different families who lived there by performing a number. She chose for us and my brothers to sing Carpenters' "Top of the World" and my Mom's favorite song. And I think we won a prize, although I'm not sure now, but what I know it was a "hard" song to sing, what with her doing the second voice. And that would have been my likeness for singing and songs that carried thru my college days and the present.

In my varsity days, I have attended Blood, Sweat and Tears concert at the Araneta Coliseum, even though I could only afford a general admission seat, so far away from the stage I couldn't see the singers' faces. Binoculars wasn't used then. Or even though now I can't remember their songs. But, I do remember the music of Deodato, like "Odyssey Space 2001" and " Spratsaratusta" or something. I even bought their LP (Long Playing) record which I played in our enormous Pioneer stereo system and speakers! The other concert that MADE my summer was Angela Bofill's "Angelita" (Angel Of The Morning), both of them again at the Araneta Coliseum.

In my junior year, I was discovering jazz music that I saw Lito Molina's, a saxophonist, at the Goethe House, a German cultural venue showing experimental film, music and paintings, in Espana Extension. And would you believe Lito was one of my father's classmates at UST (University of Santo Tomas) where i also graduated. Boy was he as good as Dave Grusin when he plays "Take Five" among other tunes which is now still popular.

And who would beat my love and fondnest of OPM (Original Pilipino Music) popularized by three Ateneo college students, Danny, Jim and Buboy, collectively known as the APO Hiking Society. Although I didn't see them perform LIVE, I've followed their careers for years. Songs and singers have again enliven and engrossed my summer this year. I'll write about them next.

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

HAWAIIAN DINNER






As the sun was still out and the weather perfect outdoors, we have dinner at the curbside area in front of the store. Mind you, the food are not for dieters like Nette, who always seem to say she FULL again after eating such sumptuous menu. As for Julius he was in heaven with his Round Table pepperoni pizza size extra small he had to wait for 20 minutes. But, it was all worth it for him and so is the day we spent today with his parents, Mabelle and Billy. So much fun we didn't want it to end and go to sleep. And more so because Nette, Gino and I had to work the next day. Monday morning I was sluggish and feeling a little tired after a happy day with family. Wait for more posts after they get home from their L.A. Disneyland and Universal Studios side trips.

STRAWBERRY FIELD FOR A BUCKET







After a shopping spree, Julius was ready to experience how fun it is to pick his own strawberries not from the A&P store in PA.
And the whole field was his to explore as most tourists have done in the last months. The fruits were delicious so we made a smoothie when we got home. But before that, Gino treated us with a dinner at Ohana Hawaiian BBQ near the theaters which is a short walk from our house.

EATING AND SHOPPING





You should the sale at the Polo Ralph Lauren, Calvin Klein and Coach stores which have 50% to 75% July 4 discount. So, Kuya save up your Brazilian Pesos!!! LOL. You'll be spending much time there in a couple of months.

ENDLESS SUMMER DAY











Sunday morning, we hit the road to the beach, driving around the shore at Tamarack, Carlsbad, but couldn't find a space to park. We headed and found one at the South Carlsbad Beach near the lifeguard tower. The skies were overcast and breezy that makes for the water to be somewhat cold but once we're in it, with the waves too many to challenge, it was cool and nice after all. Julius was the one who had the most fun and Billy the second--joke only. I, for one, went swimming, which I haven't done in years when we went to Hawaii in 1997? That's why you don't see in these photos. After a snack of chichiria and bottled water, we went to have a real(?) lunch at In N Out and to burn out the calories we hit the Carlsbad Outlet Stores. That's Julius in front of his favorite store-Sketcher Shoes. Nette and I went to the Lacoste store to buy shirt for somebody special.

THE RIDE TO THE COTTAGE AND THE FIRST NIGHT






That is Julius who's ever smiling and feeling at home with us he's met for the first time and that's good. After a light dinner, we got to chat and caught up with what has happened with our lives. Julius got to talk to Kuya by phone and when it was bedtime, he was game to sleep on the love seat, as Gino was going to sleep on the couch for the better part of the week. Time to rest because they are sleepy now and still adjusting to the time difference.

SUMMER OF 2008 (With Mabelle's Family)




Ever since Mabelle informed me (or even asked) if they could stay in our house on their planned vacation in California, I at once said:"Why not? When are you coming?" She said June 28, Saturday. So, the week before that we made sure that the lawn is moved, the garden sets cleaned, the carpet steamed, the garage cleaned-out, the van serviced and washed and vacuumed and of course, Gino's room arranged and cleaned. In fact, almost all in and around our house was moved so they can enjoy their stay and feel themselves at home. I'm just home they really did. The pictures above taken at Lindberg Field in San Diego Airport.

Needless to say, Gino and I were very excited to meet na at the airport. I even thought we were late, but, as it turned out they were the ones who arrived late. I said maybe na-delay lang. What I didn't was they were stranded and once the plane took off from PA, they experienced turbolance during the whole flight and that it was gut-wrenching and horrifying one. At last, they arrived safe and sound and such enthusiam especially Julius, who is comic and carefree about the whole trip.

Sunday, June 22, 2008

ADIOS ATE LIZ, SEE YOU IN PINAS



This Sunday, Ate Liz left for the Philippines after spending the weekend with us. She deserves the break more than anybody else. She going the take care of the preparations for her eldest daughter's wedding. All of us will miss her for a while, but not for long, cause we'll be following her--for our well-deserved rest also. The airline people are very strict about the baggage limit, etc., but, nobody can blame them.

THE LUNCH AFTER






After Fletcher's treat, we, me driving and the rest of us walking, headed to his modern condo near the freeway 5. That's Ate Liz and Nette at the back porch with the fountain in the background and near the side gate with the main high rise unit condos. The views reminded me and Ate Liz of Japan. Downtown San Diego is now booming with so many new buildings being built everyday and the many people, locals and tourists, that visit it. Part of the change maybe was because of the Petco (San Siego Baseball Team) Park being there since it opened not many years before.

FLETCHER'S DAY





Last Saturday, we celebrated Fletcher's Birthday at Puerto La Boca in the Little Italy district of San Diego downtown. It was his treat, so we were just happy to go and at the same time try to dine at a different restaurant. It was Argentinian with an authentic setting and we given a separate room like at The Crustacian, but not as chic and upscale. But, the food was delicious, but what spoiled the day was the very, very hot breaking weather (it was about 95 degrees).

THE RING


Kuya, kumusta na ang ngipin mo? Have them taken care of at once, pauwi ka na sa Pinoy. By the way, ito yung picture ng pinabibili ni Ate Liz diyan. OK? Ingat lang, DaKuy ah.

Thursday, June 19, 2008

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY


That's my Father's Day breakfast meal after the June 15 Mass. After that we brought food to Papa's house for a little salo-salo. I got a very touching card from Gino and also a Nano I-pod. It's very thoughtful of you. Thank you very much. I got text greetings from Ronnie, Doris and of course, Kuya. Thanks.

I also like to greet De a belated Happy Father's Day. I have no excuse why I couldn't call, but, let it be known that Daddy was on my mind that day. Take care and hope you celebrated it. I love you more now that I live my life patterned from what I saw and learned from yours. Like honesty, family pride, trust, fear of God and hard work ethics and most of all, I wish, your expertise in letter-writing. The last one is a tall order, but, nobody can say I couldn't try.

HIPOLITO REUNION






The Souther California Hipolito Family reunion was held at Jimbon's Chula Vista house. It was fun and very filling event complete with games and delicious Pinoy foods. Everybody was there except for Joy, who has to work and that's why we weren't able to see Tyler. I wish I would see him so I can take his picture and how he's looks and talks.

After that late afternoon, on the way to drop-off Fletcher at his downtown condo, we have the chance to drive around and took picture by the military ship-museum, SS Midway and the Bob Hope Tribute near the San Diego Bay. We feel like tourists in our own city. Again, we had fun. When you visit us, we'll show these and more. See you soon.

PHILIPPINE FREEDOM CELEBRATION





We showed some Filipino pride by wearing barong when we went to hear Mass last June 14. After getting home from the church, we took turns in posing in front of Gino's very big flag. Di ba Gino looks like Manny Paquiao. Cool na cool. Ako naman parang bigatin (dahil sa tiyan!).

Philippine Independence day is celebrated here by the Pinoy community with a cultural festival held at the City Hall grounds. We, here in the States, have in these past few months been feeling the Pinoy pride, starting with Manny Pacman's boxing win against Juan Marquez followed the discovery of singer Charice Pempengco and the new lead singer of the melodic rock band, Journey, by both the American music fans and musicians and celebrities like Ellen Degeneres and Oprah Winfry. I'll touch on these more in my next posts. And another singer who's getting a big exposure because of great voice is Madonna Decena in England's "Britain's Got Talents" TV show.

I've also read and watched American celebreties who are half-half say that they are proud to be a Filipino. And there are scores of them in the entertainment world that I didn't know before. All these attentions are well-deserved and it's about time the world take notice. And it's not the rich and famous, bright and beautiful Pinoys that gets the credit, it also include our ordinary countrymen like the many OFW who sacrifice their own lives, the ordinary employees who do their best to do the work right. Mabuhay Talaga Ang Mga Pinoy!

Thursday, May 22, 2008











THE DINNER





ASTRID'S CRUSTACEAN PARTY





Astrid's birthday was held at an very upscale and chic French, Asian restaurant in Beverly Hills. A special room upstairs was reserved for us twelve persons around a long rectangular table. The ambiance was very impressive and made us feel very "astigs" The tapas, second course, third course and fourth course was served starting with the host, Jesse, showing a bottle of wine, pouring it into our glasses one by one and telling us about the food being served next. And the food was very, very good and I'm sure all of us, including Gino and the kids enjoyed them very much.

The menu includes the following:

Tapas: Crispy Shrimp Mousse Roll with a kiwi and orange sauce
Lemongrass Beef Satay, skewered & char-broiled, Asian pickles
Seared Tuna Cucumber Roll, with Wasabi aioli, tobiko caviar and arugula
Moist Rice Paper Roll filled with mushrooms, tender cabbage, baby carrots, water chestnuts and beans
Lucien Albrecht "Cuvee Balthazar" Reserve Pinot Blanc, Alsace, '06

Second Course: Mixed Green Salad, with caramelized walnut, goat cheese, and orange vinaigrette
Dr. Weins-Prum "Graacher Himmeleich" Reisling Kbinett, Mosel-Saar-Ruwer, "06

Third Course: Colossal Royal Tiger Prawns, charbroiled with secret spices
An's Famous Garlic Noodles
Silverado Vinegard "Vineberg", Sonoma-Carneros, "05

Fourth Course: Filet Mignon, with ponzu glaze over mashed potaoes finished with portabello mushrooms
Carol Shelton Wines "Mongo Zinfandel, Cucamonga Valley, "04

Dessert: Assorted Sorbet

Birthday Cake: Extraordinaire Cake by Fletcher C. "08


It was really a perfect dinner for a perfect celebrant and her family. I wish her more great birthdays and blessed life to come. Thank you Astrid.

MAY BIRTHDAYS



In my families there's one month where birthdays are celebrated more that any. It starts with Kuya (May 8), Astrid (May 8), Nette (May 9) and Daddy (May 17) which for years we celebrate on May 29, until they found records that he was actually born 12 days before. May is not only Santacruzan and Flores De Mayo month, it's also when some of my important, beautiful and handsome (like me?) love ones where born. So, it;s always a time I always look forward to. This year is special for it's the 40th for Astrid and 55th for my Kuya. May we share more of these moments for years to come. Kuya may have celebrated his alone, he can be sure that we remembered just the same. Astrid was very gracious and made us feel important by inviting us to her very impressive party at The Crustacean. I'll tell and show more about in my next post.

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

WHERE ART THOU BROTHER, 55 ?


Historically parents name their children after persons they admire, emulate, wish they were like them or simply hoping their children would be worthy of such prestigious name. Lydia and Pabling named their first born son, Socrates, the great Greek philosopher. So, you have an idea why they give him that name. Your guess is good as mine. Just kidding, bro! Later thru my Kuya's life, he was known by many names. First was as Boy, which is explanatory given by my parents followed by Soc. He was Jess, named after the Filipino famous action star, Jess Lapid, during his high school and basketball days, by his friends. Then, he was called Jericho, which if I'm not mistaken was given to him after watching the movie with the same title.

And did you know our names initials stands for owners, we wish, of airline companies like Kuya's SAL of Singapore Air Lines, me, PAL of Philippine Air Lines and Lynn's JAL of Japan Air Lines and also of Mabelle's MAL of Malaysian Air Lines. I only wish that's true, so, we won"t have a hard seeing each other often!

But, to us, he's always been Kuya, Tagalog for Eldest Son. Me as Diko for the Second Son and Lynn as Sangko for the Third Son.
He's always been the the third breadwinner in the family. He's the one who bought my first real Nikon camera, which I still have, that started my love for photography and later videography. He's been the tough and solid, disciplinarian brother, but, he can also be the loving one, especially when he started getting older. A loving father and husband and most of a appreciative and caring son and brother. And not long from now a great and proud father-in-law and grandfather.

And what does your fifty-five years in this earth say? That is--you have kept your name, Socrates, a dignified, respected and wise person that you have been. May you continue to do well for your grandchildrens" sake and for us. HAPPY HAPPY 55TH BIRTHDAY FROM US. Always take care and prayerfully ask God for safety. We are excited to celebrate it here and in the Philippines.

Note: I used the same picture of the my cake to remind you that we are indeed The Three Muskateers: "All For One and One for All."

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

SPRING IN OUR LITTLE PARADISE






Spring is a nice time to be here in North County. Everything is in bloom and lots of color and fresh smell. It may sometimes be a Dog Day Afternoon like last Saturday, as Paris, a dog will tell you. But, that is alright cause today and the days ahead will be cool and perfect. And as we locals can easily take for granted our little paradise, we nevertheless are blessed and very fortunate to be living here. Come visit us and you're always welcome to our house.

THE BAPTISM





The next day, we went to Ruby's daughter Leah's first baby boy, Noah baptism in Perris, Riverside. The afternoon drive's temperature reached 100F with no breeze at all, so it was very, very hot. We just stayed inside Leah's house partaking on a lot of food that included Filipino favorites and American fares. Noah's a very big boy at 10.1 lbs and look very much after Leah, morena-skinned, not like Daniel, her hubby, who is white. Sorry Belle, I run out of battery that's why there's no photo of him here. Among the attendees where Leah's grandma, Jojo's family with Nette and Ruby and friends and relatives.

THE RECEPTION






At Hana's, we ordered the Big Sushi Boat as appetizers. Later, we had different dishes ranging from shrimp tempuras, chicken, beef and fish. And each of the adult had sake. For dessert, we had tempura ice cream. Needlessly to say, it was a very good. Don't worry Kuya, we'll take you there, too as we did to Lynn in 1994.

THE ANNIVERSARY






Nette and I's 25th wedding anniversary was celebrated and renewed and blessed by Father Peter at the Mission Parish Church on April 26. In attendance were the Aguiluz and Magbitang families only because Nette's Mommy was still in Hawaii and Papa was at home. We were nervous just as we were on our first marriage ceremony. We practiced how we're going to walk (hand in hand) towards the altar and how I was going to kiss Nette (of course this time-a soft kiss on the lips). The parishioners applauded when our names were called, with even some ahh!!! and after we walked back to our seats. The people in front and back of us congratulated us. And as we're having our pictures taken in front of the altar, one of the elderly minister commented:"25 years, you're not that old enough." We took it as a compliment as we just answered: "Thank You".

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

25TH IS SILVER AND IS FOREVER


We started as friends, then as lovers and ended up as a couple and tomorrow Nette and I will celebrate our 25 Wedding Anniversary. I knew we'll last this long, but, as with other marriages that last, it wasn't always easy, but, it wasn't very bad either. It had our share of problems, joys and hardships. Through it all it is a happy partnership. Through it all, we survive and will continue live together till we don't know each other anymore. That's a joke. Or till I get older and older. And that one is true. This song says it all. I hope your marriages will be a long, happy and loving one.

AFTER ALL THESE YEARS

A faded wedding photograph
You and me in our first steps
The lives of those
We lost in the sweet abyss
Though the faithful world has changed
But our love remains the same
God know we've had our share of saving grace.

And I'm proud of all the blessings
You have given me
The mountains we have climbed to get this far
You learn to take the laughter with the tears
After all these years.

You make it feel brand new
After the trials that we've gone through
Against the odds we never lost our faith
In our hearts we've made our home
Where our children all have grown
Precious moments time cannot erase.

We've been livin' up and down the dixie highways
Seasons that we've learned to share apart
Somehow in my heart I always keep you near me
After all these years.

After all these years
You stood by me
Those days and nights that I was gone
After all these years
You sacrificed, believe in me
And you stood strong
Cause with our love there's nothing left to fear
After all these years.

After all these years
You stood by me
Those days and nights I was gone
After all these years
You sacrifices, believe in me
And you stood strong
Cause with our love there's nothing to fear
After all these years.

Monday, April 21, 2008

PLANNING FOR THE 25TH




Last Saturday the 12th, Nette and I went to our parish office to inquire about renewing wedding vow or a short blessing by our parish priest, Father Peter. Our 25th wedding anniversary is on the 23rd, but ceremony will be on the 26th. At the end of the Mass, Father Peter will call us in front of the altar and the parishioners, give his blessing and maybe he'll tell me to kiss the bride again. After which we'll have a reception with a very few relatives and closed friends at Hana's. You are invited and wish you could be here with us to share our joy of a long and happy marriage.

Flashback to the morning of 1983 at The Holy Redeemer Parish in Quezon City, where we were first married. Sidelights were: Mabelle was our flower girl; limo was provided by our good friend and classmate, Benjie; clothes designed by Rey Manago and photography and video by our godfather, Danny. And did you know, my hair was almost done by SuperCuts with my hair cut short and curly, which they said would look good on me. And it was only when Nette saw me that it's a bad idea, so I had them straightened just in time for the wedding. And it was a wise decision, I was, and still, very proud of my wife and that we were sharing the moment with all for love ones--family, friends, classmates and neighbors. Reception, if you still remember was held at The Aberdeen Court in West Triangle.

Looking back at it now, I always know that I made the right decision in getting married to this amazing, wonderful and beautiful and very loving woman for we have stayed together for 25 years. Our marriage had its hard times, but most, it had more of the good times. May we last for the next 25 years and I hope you all will be there, still. But, on the night of the 23rd, Nette and I will be by ourselves having dinner at Macy's World restaurant. I'll post about this next.

REMEMBERING ATE ROSIE


Ate Rosie passed away last month after a long medical battle as Ima Migring years ago and Impong Lucia many many years ago.
I can still remember hearing Ate Rosie's voice from her house in Wawa, Bataan, calling out Resty, her eldest son who is a good 500 feet away to come home. She supported her family doing manicuring and cutting hair of women from her barrio. Later, she would sell insurance plans and whatever jobs she can take. It was in these ways that she was able to send her children to school and now all her hard work have paid off. Some of them are well-off.

She was always the Santacrusan Queen stylist and dance teacher. She was always cheerful and I was always welcome to have lunch or dinner at their house when I spent my summers during my high school and college days. Her house then was made entirely of bamboo slat flooring where one can see the ground below. And it was also in her house where she said we can see spirits who show up in the eyes of little children like us. And that thought have always scared us, so we must behave whenever we're there. Now, I learned that her house is the biggest and most modern, which I have never seen for myself.

The photo above is a sculpture of St. Rachel in our Mission San Luis Rey parish. St. Rachel is said to have waited for her children and was sadden when they haven't returned to her. But, it's now us, her nephews and children, who feel sadden that we won't be able to see and feel her love and kindness. Rest in peace and may her wait for us to be united again be a joyful event with God at her side always. Thank you for being there for me when sometimes I'll just show up in your house unannounced.

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

IT'S YOUR BIRTHDAY, SIS


Let me be the first greet Mabelle A VERY HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY. For that may I give you my cake. How time flies even if you're counting or not. Not very long ago, you were just a little girl playing cute and showing off our car to our neighbors in Project 8. Next I remember you being a grade schooler at St. Joseph's In Espana Blvd. Fast forward, you were a high schooler at Carlsbad High. Fast forward still, you have a family of your own. And with all that you've been through, I admire you for your strength and courage and independence to make your life work even if some things are beyond your control. Still, you continue to dream and are making the right decisions. Together with Billy's ambition and Julius being your inspiration, I'm sure in your birthdays more to come you would have attain your goals. I wish you happiness and the best in life. Be strong, be positive and that your life is a cause for celebration. May you enjoy your day with those who really matter to you.

By the way, watch for a package I sent yesterday. Don't throw away the paper wrappings, there are cards at the bottom. Take care of yourself because there many people who care for you, love you and need you.